University work and newborn baby
The first two weeks:
The first two weeks of Murray's life was definitely the hardest. I knew it was going to be difficult but I don't think I realised just how hard it would of been especially with the lack of sleep and the amount of guests that come round to meet the baby. In addition to having no idea what we where doing; Murray had to be readmitted into hospital due to having high jaudince levels and needed phototherapy treatment overnight although this is really common in babys apparently. Do you know anybody that needed this?
Murray experiencing phototherapy.
Thankfully we got out the next day and Murray got to meet lots more people! Although, I enjoyed this time and enjoyed people meeting Murray; I was extremely tired and was just getting to grips with Breastfeeding.
During the first few weeks we also got discharged from the midwives on Day 10 as they were happy with Murrays weight and development as well as happy on how I was doing (although I don't think I had a shower for days 🙈).
Back to it
After the second week and when my partner went back to work; I decided it was time to pick up my university work again especially as I was getting stressed about the amount of work in which was piling up throughout my absence. However, I had no idea how I would be able to complete 2 group work projects and complete 3 reports throughout a very short period of time. So here's what I done -
1. Get dressed first, then dress the baby
(Babies are likely to need a few changes throughout the day; so get yourself ready first).
2. Set out basic to-do list.
(Don't over completcate things. Only write a max of three things as this is achievable).
3. Take help when offered.
(In-laws wanting to take the baby out a walk, let them! Try and focus on your university work but please only leave your baby with somebody you can trust).
4. Don't stress if you didn't complete your list
(Remember just as important as finishing your report, your baby won't be this small ever again so enjoy the newborn cuddles while you have them).
As I am breastfeeding I have realised the best way to be able to focus on my university work for a long period of time is to express milk in the morning so that I have a bottle ready for somebody to give him; if needed.
Two week old Milestone picture.
Comment your tips and tricks on how you dealt with the first two weeks of your babies lifes! ❤️
You’re doing amazing sweetie x
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DeleteWell done, sounds like your managing to juggle life well! You got this 💪🏼
ReplyDeleteWe are just about getting there! Just hoping my grades aren’t affected too much 😩🙈 x
DeleteWell done Heather you are doing amazing xx
ReplyDeleteThank you very much 🤍
DeleteBest tip I was told was that the housework etc can wait. Just enjoy the newborn bubble, it doesn't last for long and you don't get that time back!
ReplyDeleteAwk I know!! He’s grown so much already 😩 x
DeleteYou’re doing so well Heather, I’m so proud of you!
ReplyDeleteYour doing so well xx
ReplyDeleteYour doing amazing ❣️
ReplyDeleteYou look like you have got this now. Keep up the great work and the studies.
ReplyDeleteYou’re doing amazing heather, juggling uni and everything with becoming a mum, well done xx
ReplyDeleteYou are doing so well, just take it day by day, enjoy the little things and try not to stress too much 🤍
ReplyDeleteI think you’re doing an amazing job Heather. Much love to you and baby Murray 💙
ReplyDeleteYou got this mama you are doing amazing
ReplyDeleteHeather youve done amazing juggling uni and a baby! Your so right about trying to get things prepped before hand. I love your hints and tips and totally true about prioritising things. Youve got this ❤️
ReplyDeleteMy first baby had jaundice and yes, it is very common and very treatable. Take help when it's offered and don't be shy to ask for help either. You're doing great!
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